Many of us have hard time with trust. Yet, it is this inability to trust others is what makes us attract people who aren’t trustworthy. Learn how you can heal and re-gain your trust in yourself and others from this article.
When you are dating or looking for love, trust is essential. However, our trust can often be heavily impacted by our past relationship experience. What’s even worse is that sometimes we even go as far as attaching a stereotype to an entire group of individuals, all due to our fear of trusting others. When your trust has been heavily affected by someone, it can really impact your dating experience in more than one way. Some people avoid dating altogether, others attract the wrong kind of people even more. We may believe that if only we were conscious enough about picking the right, trustworthy individuals, we would be OK. We think it is all about the other person. But the truth is, it doesn’t work this way and no one but yourself can help you with your trust issues.
Don’t get me wrong, picking the right person is a lot, but it is not everything. In fact, if your ability to trust has been affected, your radar for men (or women) is actually broken. Because what’s really happening with you is that at the moment you are having hard time trusting yourself. When you don’t trust yourself your body starts attracting people who are not trustworthy. Your spirit desperately wants you to look within and heal that wounded part of yourself that stops you from experiencing true love. And unfortunately the only way you can truly heal your trust issues is by falling for the wrong person again. This is the only way you will have a chance to learn that it is not about them, but about you. Something deep inside you will be screaming “next time, trust me, your gut feeling!” – a part of you that, I must say, you ignored over and over again.
When you can truly trust yourself and your heart, you know that your heart will never pick anything or anyone who is wrong for you. And even if the wrong person does show up in your life, trusting yourself and your gut feeling is what will allow you to handle the situation appropriately and walk away.
